Men Written By Women In Cinema

Ever felt like men in TV shows and movies are stuck in the same old boxes—tough but unemotional, funny but clueless? What if female writers could flip the script? Here, we have explored some male characters that defy stereotypes and are real, with all their vulnerabilities, complexities, and hidden emotional depths. Read along and sigh because these writers have broken the mould and made us go, “Wait, guys can be like that?”

Graham and Miles: The Holiday (Netflix)

Graham and Miles: The Holiday (Netflix) Played by: Jude Law and Jack Black and Written By Nancy Meyers

Played by: Jude Law and Jack Black and Written By Nancy Meyers

Meyers challenges traditional stereotypes of masculinity through Graham and Miles, showcasing diverse expressions of love and vulnerability. Graham, dressed in warm, muted tones, is shown as a responsible father figure taking care of his daughters, showing his emotional depth through subtle gestures like writing Iris a goodbye letter. Also, Miles openly expresses his feelings towards Iris, supports her emotionally, and encourages her to pursue her writing dreams.

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The Priest-Fleabag (Amazon Prime Video)

Played By: Andrew Scott and Written By: Phoebe Waller-Bridge

Phoebe Waller-Bridge showcased the character “The Priest” as someone committed to his faith yet struggling with his desires and flaws. Waller-Bridge exposes his vulnerabilities, making him more relatable and empathetic. The character highlights his active listening traits, provides non-judgmental support, and is emotionally expressive.

Ben-The Intern (Netflix)

Played By: Robert De Niro and Written By Nancy Meyers

Through various elements, Nancy Meyers displayed Ben as a character who defies the conventions associated with age, proving that wisdom and resilience are timeless qualities. She blends the character with humour and heart. He is displayed as someone who is not afraid to express his emotions and doesn’t conform to traditional notions of masculinity associated with older men.

Baek Ye Jin, Twenty-Five Twenty-One (Netflix)

Played by: Nam Joo-Hyuk and Written By Kwon Do-Eun

Baek Ye Jin, the most adored K-drama character, is showcased as a quiet guy with an observant personality. Despite fewer words, his words carry a significant emotional depth. He is shown as a supportive character who listens intently. With Na Hee Do, he exhibited playful rivalry and budding friendship; with his family, he is seen as the most responsible and caring one.

Laurie, Little Women (Amazon Prime Video)

Played By: Timothée Chalamet and Written By: Greta Gerwig

Gerwig gave Laurie emotional sensitivity. She challenges the notions of masculinity by showcasing a male character who embraces vulnerability, emotions, and artistic expression. Initially, Laurie is displayed as an impulsive and immature character, but with time, he learns his responsibilities and self-awareness and finds his path. Laurie’s relationship with Amy and Jo highlights their intellectual connection and mutual respect.

Anthony Bridgerton- Bridgerton (Netflix)

Played By: Jonathan Bailey and Written By: Julia Quinn

Julia Quinn displayed the character of Anthony Bridgerton as someone responsible and dutiful. He safeguards his siblings and prioritises his family. She highlights his emotional side by showcasing his fear of falling in love, believing it leads to vulnerability and suffering. This character breaks misogyny by admiring his sister’s intelligence and encouraging their independence. Go from one complex dude at a time to no complex dude at any time.

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